well, there is this guy that i've likes for the longest now and probably can say kinda starting to luv a little! and he was there for me when me and my bf of three years broke up and understood what i was going through cuz him and his gf of a year were breaking up! and we started calling, texting, and writing a whole bunch of letters to each other, which soon lead to flirting! and sooner or later we started to crush on each other and call each other boyfriend and girlfriend! BUT we were still tryna fix our problems with our exes but it didnt work for the both of us so we had to move on and they already moved on too! but hes the type of guy that has A LOT of exes and a guy that could pull a lot of girls too! and ehe would tell me all his girl troubles and i could tell him about my boy troubles! we were just crushing on each other, neither of us knew what would ever come and NEVER asked! a few months passed by and of course we were still writing each other and texting like crazy and so we went to the movies together with a whole bunch of friends but the catch was that he had a gf but neither of us knew what would happen! well we watch the movie, laugh a whole bunch, looked at each other and starting kissing... and it was like a MOVIE! we both were starting to really like each other and before anything had happened during the movie he told me that him and gf were going to end up breaking up cuz of too much problems! so... like a fool i thought they were going to break up so i didnt really feel so bad... a few days pass and we were starting to say i love to each other but he still hasn't broken up with his gf and they hardly talked! and i asked him when and he just said ..."i don't know" well it was a friday and he was going to camp the following day and wouldnt come back until monday and they didn't have good service up there so i wouldn't hear from him than! well of course we said the ima miss and i love you but monday comes and i hear that him and some girl were kissing b/c they "use to talk" and she still liked him and went in for the kill! and i told him i knew and things arent really the same cuz i felt like i just got played but it wasn't really his fault cuz she was the one that went in for it but just the fact that he told me that he loved me but still has a gf and plus was kissing some girl he "use to talk to", i don't know what to do and i don't know if its even true about all the things that he told me! i wanna believe it cuz i know him better than that and IF we do get into a relationship, how do i know that i can trust him? should i even think about getting into a relationship with him anyway? i am gonna talk to him but i don't wanna be pushy and make it seem like YOU HAVE TO DO THIS... i just wanna know but don't wanna look stupid cuz he might not feel the same about me anymore now, but i still love him a lot!
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--- Wednesday, January 25, 2006 - hey
Answer by: missknowitall
just to let you know the saying once a cheater, wlaways a cheater is wrong. In 8th grade for me, i cheated on my bf which was a stupid move and i didn't cheat again, and i found out that he also cheated on me, told me a couple years later but he did the same and he never cheated on me again.
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