Well it all started when I joined this church. There was a guy there that had taken a interest in me and we started the dating thing, well a couple months down the road, we ended up not being together for situations I rather not tell, he gave me the "I don't think it's gonna work, your not ready to be my woman" line, so i dumped him and moved on, the very next day I was walking through the mall and this guy approachs me and asks me for my number, now he is currently my new boyfriend, however, the guy I was dating before hand, had a best friend. I just found out that this best friend, secretly has a crush on me, but can't talk to me because he doesn't want to cross any boundries with my ex. (Or touch his left-overs) He said in his words, "I would talk to her, but T--- is like a brother to me and I don't want to mess anything up with him" So now what am I suppose to do. He doesn't know that I like him. I've always liked him, but I felt it was never gonna work, or it was never gonna happen, or he likes those supermodel looking girls, and so I never bothered to think twice about him. NOW he is this irrestible man, that is kind, sweet, funny, and I know would treat me very well, probally worship that ground I walk on. BUT I feel like I can't have him. I know that I should leave it alone, considering the fact that I have a boyfriend already, but my boyfriend I've only known him for 3 weeks and he works out of town so I don't get to see him much, but the other guy I've know for about a year, and I see him sometimes 3 or 4 times a week. I get mixed signals from him sometimes. Does he like me, does he want me, or just want to be friends. He hugs me at church, would do anything I ask him to. One time I swear he was staring at me, when I'm around him I just can't tell. What should I do?
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