K, I've been dating this guy for two years. I moved away for school, and ever since I've been out here things are hard. I'm away monday-friday, we spend ALL weekend together and sometimes one night during the week I go home. For whatever reason it's not good enough for him and we're constantly fighting. Over everything. Lately I've been getting doubts, and there are times when I just don't even want to see him, and times when I think I'd be happier without him. My problem is that I cant just break up with him. It's so complicated. Even though I feel like that sometimes, I also feel like if I do leave him I will regret it. I don't know what to do, I really love this guy, but the fighting is just taking over and ruining us... anyone have any advice?
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--- Friday, February 10, 2006 -
Answer by: hatsumomo
my b/f and i are also separated for a long time, sometimes months at a time, and it is very difficult i agree. in my case the roles were reversed, i was snapping a lot at him, because i felt so alone and was mad that he had gone sumwhere without me. i cant say thats what ur b/f is feeling, but it might be similar. its strange to be pulled away from the one person uve spent so long with, and there is definitley a 'settling in' period.
i suggest that the two of u talk about it and then wait it out for a while. i know it tough and its confusing, but its either absence makes the heart grow fonder, or out of sight out of mind. you should also ask yourself if your 100% sure you want to keep working at this even though its a rough ride, because if you dont feel u can then there is no point dragging this out.
good luck
--- Friday, February 3, 2006 - confused
Answer by: princessdn
I now what your going through its hard am not in jr.high anymore that was a long time ago I was writing about what am going though now.If he is weath kepping you should keep he sometimes taking breaks from each other in letting each other grow will help you realize that you do really have something but sometimes being togetheir can not be good either I would say haug in there in if you feel he is a keeper then keep him.But talk to him in if he cares in love you alot he will understand.But just because you need more space sometimes I think that would help.
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