Well I was interested in this guy early Fall of 2005 but I never said anything and since then I let it go. Until one day I went to my friend's house one night and he happened to be over there when I walked in. That whole night he was glaring into my eyes and I was doing the same. As bad as I hate to say it, I never once thought I'd see him again until the first day of school. I was walking in from the library into the student center and he was sitting there with is friends and he called out to me, "So you not gon speak to me?" and I was so caught up in words that I didn't know what to say. I spoke to him and asked him about his classes and that was that. The next day I was leaving my first morning class and I walked into the student center with my best friend and he yelled out my name while sitting at the table with his boys. I didn't know what to say, I waited a few minutes and I went over and talked to him for a minute. He kept asking me about coming to his house and I kept brushing it off. Not a few weeks later, we were sitting in the student center on the couches with some friends and a girl was telling me about how she has so many positive things in her life and he looked at me and winked his eye and said "I need something positive in my life." and I just looked at him From that day on, we would walk to class together and when I'd go to meet my best friend at the beginning of her class, (which happens to be on the same hallway and same building as his class, he would stop and talk to me. Sometimes I wouldn't be paying him any attention and he'd touch me to get my attention and converse with me until it was time for him to go to class. What I'm not understanding is I don't know what to interpret from all of this. I don't know if he does or doesn't like me? I would like for him to know that I really like him and I even gave him a few cluse when I asked him about him having a girlfriend and also sitting with him in the cafeteria. I just don't know what more to make of it. Can you please help me?
Thank You!
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--- Saturday, February 4, 2006 - My two cents
Answer by: JonathanR33D
Hi Again,
Sorry but I'm in a rush so take some quick advice. I think you should give him a few more days to make a move. If nothing happens and you are dying to find out where you stand with him, simply ask him if there's anyone that he's interested in... nothing more than that. Though this is a nonchalant way to ask him, it will be totally obvious to him that you are interested. It may be kind of hard for you to ask because you are actually getting a "sudden" answer from him - something you probably wasn't expecting so fast.
No matter how he responds (directly or indirectly), his level of interest will be obvious... trust me. But if you don't get a response at all, it's possible that he's actually not comfortable asking you out; although him not responding COULD have other meanings - but that's for you to decide at that point. Good Luck
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--- Saturday, February 4, 2006 - One day
Answer by: chocolatecream
Also at one point in time this girl that I work with had the biggest crush on him and I would tell him and he would tell me that he didn't like her and I would continuously tease him about her to hide how I truly felt. Finally earlier last week, he was coming in to go to class and he stopped by the table and we were about to walk to class together. I then told him I had something to tell him and he came straight out and said "I don't wanna hear anything abou Sheyla (which is the girl who was liking him)?" and I was taken back by his response and I just laughed. Finally walking to class, he asked me "What I had to tell him?" and as bad as I wanted to tell him that I liked him, it wouldn't come out and I said "Never mind."
I honestly think he knows.
--- Saturday, February 4, 2006 - He asked me to his house
Answer by: chocolatecream
Thank You for the advice. A while back before I realized how much I liked him, I was at a friend's house and he was over there also. At that time, I cooked some tacos for my friend and he ate some also. So he would start up conversations by saying he wants me to come to his house and cook some tacos for him and that he needs me to cook for him. He's very respectful and has never once made any sexual advances or even mentioned sex in the slightest and that's impressive.
What should I say or do to give him a jump start?
--- Saturday, February 4, 2006 - My two cents
Answer by: JonathanR33D
Hi ChocolateCream,
It's highly possible that he's just as interested as you are. It's usually normal for things to have a slow start; it just depends on the two people involved. Actually, it's a healthy way to start. Give him so more time without comming on too strong. Give small clues from time-to-time and see what happens. From what I read in your post, he don't seem to be shy when dealing with girls, so I'd expect him to be more aggressive. Now if you think differently, then you would have to help him a bit... but I don't think this is the case.
You biggest job is to analyze him and see what his intentions are (he asked you over to his house already?). Now I'm not saying that he's a bad person because I don't know him. But anything is possible now days. The last thing you want is to get emotionally involved with a guy who don't feel the same way, or even worse, have different intentions. I'm just going to hope that you have something great ahead of you and wish the best. Keep me up to date on this one. Good Luck
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