well i seem to get too jealuos like when my boyfriend hangs out with other girls or when im with him and he looks at them and i dont know y this happens i dont want it too at all it upsets me but then when i talk to him about it i get more jealous and kinda accuse him of checking all these girlsd out...i think the reason y im like this is becuz i grew up with it becuz my mom was like that to my step dad but i dont want to be the same way..any ideas as to how i can stop before it gets too bad for our relationship
first of all theres nothing wrong with being jealous to an extent, because it only proves how much you care for this guy. secondly, everyone experiences some kind of jealousy at one point. i'm in a serious relationship and have been for sum time, but lord only knows both my boyfriend and i have had many arguments over this kind of thing.
i think that the way to deal with this is with positive feedback from your boyfriend. yes he may have a wandering eye every now and then, but at the end of the day its you he is with. if it truly makes you feel inadequate then i think you should maybe sit down and calmly list ur worries. then relay these to him in a non confrontational way and tell him you feel insecure. if you feel ready, you should tell him you grew up with this sort of behaviour and you dont want to feel its going to affect ur adult life. he's sure to tell you your wonderful, gorgeous and that he worshipps you hunny.
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