I started dating this guy 1 year ago and everything was going great!!! I lost my job 4 months ago and my place to live, so he offered to let me move in for a bit, Well I gave him rent $$ and he didnt like it... We started hanging out everyday and it became too much for both of us, we both felt trapped. We broke up 4 months ago..."This guy has been burned in the past by every relationship and is afraid of falling in love....... I love him so much it hurts me to not have him apart of my life....... We have stayed in close contact for the last 4 months, and when I say close we talked every other day... We are seperated and there has been no sex or kissy kissy, He slept with another girl a few weeks ago but while he did it he was calling me to tell me how much I meant to him and yada yada yada..... Which I am not mad that he slept with her because we are not together and I have been seeing someone else "not serious" but now that I have found out we havent talked in a week.... I called one day and we talked for a sec
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--- Friday, March 10, 2006 - This doesn't sound good at all
Answer by: j1m2f3
Don't shoot the messenger but I do not think you two are in love at all. I do like your Seinfeld quote though "yada yada yada." I know that if he was in love with you and you were in love with him, you both would not be seeing other people. That being said, you may have some feelings for him and that could lead to a relationship that turns into "true love." So if you both got sick of eachother in the past but now want to get back together it might be worth giving it a go but this time don't go to fast. Maybe you two simply moved in together too soon.
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