I was with a guy for 2 yrs. & we ended up having unprotected sex! I had skipped a couple of days of my birth control but I thought I was ok! Unforunately, I was wrong & ended up pregnant! At 1st, my thought was have an abortion but I could never do that 2 an innocent baby! NE way, we had a fight over the whole thing & broke up! Since then, I've found sum 1 else! I'm now in love & the guy I'm with plans on helping me raise the baby as OURS! I'm excited about the baby & we can't wait! Her (the unborn baby) father (the ex) wants 2 be in her life & I'm not 1 to complain, but I don't think I'd be comfortable with him around me and my daughter! My new man doesn't really want him NE where around us, but she's his daughter, also! So, should I let him be in her life or not! We don't love each other & there is nothing going on with us or NE thing! We're just not on "talking terms"!!! I need help, PLEASE, help me!!!!! THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME & ADVISE!!! -ARIANA S.
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--- Wednesday, March 15, 2006 - Terms
Answer by: sweetandsexy
Dear Ariana S., I think that your new man is great taking on being a dad when its not his, your very lucky. As for your ex, if you two can't talk you shouldn't have him around your new daugther. She will pick up on the bad vibes and be upset by it. If and only if you and your ex can get along well should you have him around your new baby girl. If you end up letting him spend time with her maybe at first you should let him do so without the new man of your life around to lossen the tension. Its alittle advice but I hope it helps you out. And con grads on being a new mom. All the best for the both of you. -Sweetandsexy
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