Hello my question is what do i do now that my girl friend has left.
Well here is a little bit about our relationship, we had been together for a little over 4 years and on my birthday march 9th she comes home and packs her stuff and just leaves. She said the reason she left was because i hold her back too much but the only thing i know that i have done was told her that i didnt want her to go into the airforce and then i changed my mind and said that maybe she should and that i would even try it with her which is something that i thought she wanted. But then she said that she just wasnt happy anymore but how can u just go from being in love and happy one day to not being happy the next.
Now she says that she still loves me but she cant be with me but she still wants to be friends, however everytime i try to call her she wont answer and she said that if i dont stop calling she is going to get a restraing order on me.
So i just would like to know where to go from here is there anyway i can get her back and if so how and if there is not how do i move on i mean i know she is the one it was true love and she was my sole mate i just with she could see that so any help would be appreciated
Thanks, Lost In Lexington
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--- Thursday, March 16, 2006 - Lost feeling
Answer by: sweetandsexy
Dear Lost in Lexington,
Honey did you tell her you thought you two were soul mates, that you loved her so much and so deeply. That maybe you told her no in the first place about the airforce is that you were scared that you won't see her as much, or didn't want her to have to move to a base or something.You were acting protecive, and you have a right to do so. Shes your gf of 4 yrs. That means something, right? Cause shes getting upset about you calling, could you write to her telling her how you feel top to bottom. At the end of the letter say that you really want her back and that you hope that she calls you or writes back soon. If she doesn't do anything and you don't hear from her...maybe you should take a vaction, a few deep breaths and just ly low for a week or two. She could clue in that she lost something special and call you later. But please take your time getting over her. Don't be silly and jump back onto the dating sence. Its not good for you or the other person. When people do that the new relationship doesn't last long and your heart is broke again. Take your time and remember all the good you and her had, please don't get nasty about it. Its not worth it dear. Wishing you all the best from Canada.
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