Ok, i'll try an keep this short and sweet but it is quite hard to explain and help would be greatly appreciated.
Ok, so i work in a convenience store and theres this girl I work with, we've bin gettin on like a house on fire for the last 6 months even when I dumped my gf for bein accused of cheatin on her, with the girl in question. We used to txt each other all the time until we were told not to so the situation with my ex would calm down. Every time i see this girl she gives me all the classic signs of liking me, like long eye contact, talking to me alot and telling me some revealing things about herself, "accidently" bumping into me, and even pinching me and punching me in the arm. She also laughs at near everything i say and do and some times if i say i gotta go and do some work before the boss sees us, she says "don't go" or "you ain't going nowhere." Also if she says something to me that may insult me in any way she always says "only joking" as if she doesn’t want to hurt my feelings even though i know shes just playing.
Now heres the twist in the tale. I've actually asked this girl out three times as I am crazy about her and each time she just says "we're too gudda mates" yet she still continues to flirt with me the following time we meet. Me and my other colleagues believe she likes me but she still denies it.
So my question is how should I handle this situation? Should I just lay off her for a bit and pay her less attention and see if she gets annoyed by the lack of attention i give her or should I continue to flirt with her and see how things go?
Opinions will be greatly appreciated. Thanks in Advance
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Answer by: conniption4321
It sounds to me like she isn't ready to settle down and she only wants to have fun at the moment. Maybe if you get to know each other better, she'll feel better about going out with you.
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