about 2 months ago i started talking to this guy. ive always had a thing for him so i was really excited when he added me on msn. we talked for a couple weeks before we hung out for the first time. we were making out and cuddling together for a few hours, he told me i was really hot and that i seemed like a really sweet girl, but since he had broken up with his girlfriend only a few months ago he wasnt ready for a reationship yet. we continued to hang out about once a week and we taked almost every day on the computer.we also ended up having sex once which was unexpected but he was really sweet to me afterwards. and then one night he called me out of nowhere asking me if i wanted to hang out later in the week, i agreed to that and then we talked for half an hour, during that phone call, he told me i was different from the other girls he was used to hanging out with because im really nice and sweet and that im not just a rebound girl, and that he gets shy around me because of that. when the day we were supposed to hang out came along he ditched me and wrote me an e mail saying sorry,that he doesnt let himself get close to anyone right away,and that he would warm up to me in time. ,so i suggested we hang out the next day and he agreed. he ended up ditching me that day too and i got kinda mad at him. and since then he hasnt been interested im me at all he barely talks to me on the computer anymore, he doesnt call or text me anymore, and we havent hung out in 2 weeks. i really was starting to like him, i know he diddnt want a reationship right away but he said he wanted us to hang out. so what happened? why did he all of a sudden loose intrest?
There are many possibilities here hon. The first possibility is that he just stopped being interested for his own reasons. Second is that he is interested but wants to keep distance for now because he thought you were getting too close and he's not ready for anything. The last possibility is that he met someone else. I know none of these are what you want to hear, but sometimes you need to. The best thing for you to do is move on and let him go.
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Answer by: conniption4321
There are probably many different reasons this could have happened, but the best way to find out what went wrong is to ask him yourself. If he won't give you a reason, just forget about him...there are plenty of guys out there who won't ditch you.
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