My boyfriend and I just broke up about a month ago. The break-up was my fault, as I had heart him badly by lying to him. I miss him so much. We still talk on the phone and see each other, but all he wants to be now is just friends. I'm not sure that I can handle just being friends with him cause I am still very much in love with him, but at the same time I keep telling myself that friends is better than nothing at all. I am so confused right now. It's killing me not to be able to hear him tell me he loves me, and to not have him hold me in his arms. What should I do??
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--- Sunday, April 9, 2006 -
Answer by: worrysometeen
well u have to remember u broke his heart to by lying he thought he could trust u and found out he couldnt hes worried ur gonna do it again and most people cant handle that tell him u still love him and u wont do it again that u want to be with him and u messed up after u tell him that back off a little and see how he feels dont push him he needs time to think sometimes its not meant to be.
--- Monday, March 27, 2006 -
Answer by: conniption4321
It might be better for you if you took a break from talking and seeing each other (just for a while). It would allow you time to feel better and more comfortable with being friends. After break-ups it is really hard to stay friends, and always being around him with feelings like that might make things worse in the long run.
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