When I meet new guys I become really shy unless im drunk its really bad! I met a guy in a club a couple of weeks ago and I went up 2 him and took his mobile phone and typed my number in and told him 2 txt me! he did 10 mins later and he kept txting me all week just saying things like sweetdreams and that I hope you had a good day we met up again but because I wasn't drunk @ all I was really shy and there was some akward silences but the more the date went on I became more relaxed with him and by the end we were laughing and joking just having a good time I heard from him the same day saying he had a really good time and that he wanted to see me again. Thinking he was still intrested I text him the next day and he replied really distance and then with 3 days without a word from him (seeing as he used 2 text me morning and night I knew something was up) so I text him wtf's going on be straight with me and all he said was I don't know what the hell your talking about im going to bed! and I haven't heard from him since I really don't know what I have done. I ended up going on another date yesterday with another guy who has liked me for ages, we met through a friend and he kept asking her about me and telling her how much he liked me after 3 weeks I finally gave him my number and we met up yesterday and I wasn't shy it was strange but good we talked laughed and played pool it was great and he said he wanted to see me again during the week and he also text me saying he had a good time and that he couldn't wait to see me again so I text him back today saying I hope you had a good day sowi I didn't text back last night I fell asleep! neways he hasn't text me back its been 9 hours and he told me that he lives around his phone how he never turns it off and its always on him! Am I just being to parnoid because of the last guy?!
Responses to this article:
--- Tuesday, April 11, 2006 - Pattern?
Answer by: marilyn1
You sound like you are a young women. I am not sure what this second guy is up to, but don't worry so much over 9 hours... somthing could have came up... give it at least a day or two. If no respose by then, he is not serious.
Motto: Action speaks lounder then words!
if a guy says I will do this for you, or that, and I want to take you here or there... tell him "don't say it, just do it."
You are young, you will meet many different men... sometimes you have to play the game too, and not be so available... as a friend of mine told me once when I said aren't you going to call him back... she said "you have to let them sweat every now and then." Everyone likes a challenge... be one now and again. This guy may have a good excuse, it is only 9 hours.... or he may be playing "making you sweat."
bottom line... date different men if you are in your 20's, by the time you reach 30+, you will have out grown the men you date now and have different interests. Enjoy meeting different people, and don't put your heart into it, let him "show you he cares."
LOVE QUESTIONS & ANSWERS: Love Q & A : Get your love & relationship questions answered - NEW!! Love Q&A Forum | Old Love Q&A Love Pros : Professional Help with love's challenges & relationships
