I am very confused. Me and my bf have been in this relationship for about 2 yrs, and he just got out of the military. I feel like he talked to me more when he was in another state. He used to call me all the time, when he came home i would see him mostly all the days but a couple. Then he just got out of the military and has been out for a month. I've only seen him about 6 days out of a month. What kind of relationship is that. He doesn't call all week. I have to call him and then he'll be like i just got out of work can i call u back when i get home. Never calls me back. Then when he calls he's like talking to a wall. I love this man very much. But i'm confused if he's just saying he loves me back or if he really means it with the way he's acting. But then when i'm with him it's the best time in the world. I just don't know if i'm just wasting my time and heart with someone who doesn't want to act like, they want to be with me. He told me he loves me so much and wants to marry me. Could he just have a funny way of showing it. I'm a typical girl my heart is made of glass, and a million things go through my head at once....please help me, or at least guide me in the right direction. My grandma said there's a reason why i'm still in this relationship. It's gods way of saying he needs me and i need him. Just help me....... please
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Answer by: Pain_iz_Luv
well... i was with my ex for three years.. and you can say that our relationship was like that too... and so i got fed up with it and so i broke up with him and it was real hard for me but then over time i got to see that maybe i was with him for a reason... to see what it is that i really want.. and when i do met the "right" guy... ima know... and i think that your still with him for a reason.. i know you love him with all your heart.. im in love right now and he just don't know that... and i think you need to tell him EXACTLY how you feel.. and if he shows improvement or reassures you then he really does love you too but if it keeps going on like this... maybe you need to think harder about why you are still there..... but thats just my opinon...
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