i was dating this guy he was really shy he was fine if it was just us but around other people he acted like he barely knew me i hated it but i just put up with it we ended up having sex well i thought i was pregnant and i brought it up and he said that if i was he would go around claiming it wouldnt be his and he said that he would punch me in the stomach so i would loose it, it made me very angry and he didnt care what i thought i got tired of him acting like that and ignoring me i met another guy who was really sweet and wanted to date me so i broke up with my ex....well after that he would call me up saying my bf was a niger and he was gonna kill him and i just tried to ignore it and about 2 weeks later he called up sayin how much he loved me and he was sorry and he wanted me back well my current bf was great but he never seemed to have much time so i broke up with him...well my ex asked me out a bunch of times but i said i didnt think it was a good idea well hes like whatever i dont care...well he heard i was dating someone else and the phone calls started again he kept callin me sayin i was a bitch and a whore and he just wanted me for sex and all of this stuff i was really hurt cuz i still love him i just couldnt handle cryin every nite cuz of him i figured we would go back out after he learned to treat me better...i dont understand why i still love him when he hurt me so bad i cant take it i have a lot goin on in my life and earlier this year i tried to commit suicide ive been havin problems recently and hes makin it worst hes tellin ppl a bunch of stuff about me and everyone is turning on me i have a feelin the same thing is gonna happen and im gonna go back out with him so can someone give me some advice?
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--- Saturday, June 10, 2006 - Stay strong x
Answer by: greenfairy
hey 1st of all what ever you do don't go bac out with him! u know what he's saying about u isn't true and all the ppl that care about u know its not true either so thats the main thing right? Jus hold ur head high and ignore him and when he see's that u don't seem bothered by it all he'll see what he's doing is just a waste of time because in the end no one will really care. Also change ur number and don't give him ur new one so then that should stop the phone calls u could also phone ur telephone company and get his number blocked so everytime he trys to phone ur phone he won't b able to get through! Jus by reading ur story I could tell what a bastard he is and I bet if it was someone else and u read that u wuld say keep away from him to. Gd luck hun and stay strong :) x
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