I was with my ex for 2 years and around Christmas, I found out that he was cheating on me. So, we broke up but he didn't want that. He was his cake and wanted to eat it, too. He didn't wana be with me but he didn't want anyone else to be with me, either. So, he decided to make my love life a living hell. Everytime he found I that I was dating someone new, he would call my house or my cell and leave messages for them to hear. One time, he even went so far as to come to my house when my man was there with me and they got into a fight. I've lost about 4 or 5 guys because of him. Anyway, I gave up on finding someone new. And, I saw him one day and he asked if he could come over and talk. I told him yes and he did. When he got there, we talked for all of 5 minutes and then he asked for a kiss. I leaned in to kiss him on his cheek, but he turned his head and I ended up kissing his lips. He took it to far and started tongue kissing me and then he started getting "touchy-feely" and we ended up having sex. Well, a few days later, he called and said something bad had happened and asked if he could come over and sleep in the guest room. I know it was a bad decision, but I told him yeah. That night, I made sure that he was comfy and I went to my room and wen2 sleep. About 2 o'clock that morning, I felt something in my bed (he had came in my room and climbed in bed with me), and we ended up having sex, again! Since then, we've been messing around but we haven't established another relationship with each other or anyone else, for that matter! I can't tell if he just wants to have sex with me or if he still loves me, for real (like he talls me he do)! I need some counseling! Can someone, ANYONE, help me! I'd appreciate it, greatly! Thank you for taking the time to read this and your advice! ----------Taj
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--- Saturday, May 20, 2006 - sounds like a booty call
Answer by: hurtingunderneath
ok i have same prob with my ex bf well close to every time he thinks or finds out im datin someone he calls me up yells at me and says all these bad things its happened 3 times now and the 2nd time i was datin this guy for two weeks then after the nasty phone calls he apologized and wanted me back yah right. well any ways i think ur ex still cares about u but i think he dosent love u i know that may suck and this is just my opinion my ex is the same way and i dont know if he loves me or not but u can find out next time ur ex is over just say no sex and u just want to talk well talk and find out if theirs still a spark between u two if u guys can just talk and your both still interested then mb theres a chance so just try that i wish i could do the same with my ex but hes already hurt me way to bad and he is really immature calls me like everynite singing or cussing me out but ne ways i hope that helps good luck!!!
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