I'm totally confused. I've been 'seeing' this guy for about a month and a half now.. And in that time frame, he's 'broken up' with me and then come back atleast 3 times. He always made that decision, I never asked for him back. Well since the last time, he's made almost a comple 180.. He calls me atleast 3 times a day(not in a weird, stalker way), and he completely changed his attitude regarding our relationship. But now, he says that his friends feel 'awkward' when I'm there; And when I'm there and they are too, he acts completely different(he basically ignores me) then if it's just me and him, or if his roomate is home.. For example, the last time I was there, he didn't cuddle with me or even kiss me goodbye(when his friends had already left).. I just don't understand how he can be all over me one day, and then the next he doesn't even sit with me on the couch. He tells me that we have something that's progressing, and I'm totally OK with that. But he's becoming inconsistent and that drives me nuts. He does make me happy, and we had to go through a lot to get where we are now.. But I don't know if he's worth all the trouble and frustration that he's causing. How can I let him know how I feel without ruining any chance of what we could have? I truly like this guy, but I can't handle him making me feel inadequate.
Any ideas, please help!
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--- Monday, May 29, 2006 - More input
Answer by: darkwolf
Yeah, what hurtingunderneath said was great.
You need to tell him the truth, have a talk with him, tell him exactly how he is acting, and tell him if things don't change, you are out of there. Then, if things don't change, leave, and don't look back. If he is going to be embarrassed about you or whatever the hell he is doing, he doesn't deserve you. He does sound immature, leaving and coming back, acting like he is, ignoring you... he might not have what it takes to make you happy, or anyone for that matter.
--- Monday, May 22, 2006 - Sounds like hes confused!
Answer by: hurtingunderneath
I understand completely hes exactly like my ex we dated for about a month and a half but we never broke up i almost did a couple of times but my ex would ignore me around my friends and some of his it was like he was ashamed of me i hated it. It seems like this guy cares for u but i think his friends might be jealous and they r probably telling him that hes whipped or they dont like u dont take it personally some people are like this tell ur guy that u dont like being ignored and ur getting tired of it tell him if he truely cared for u he wouldnt be doing this....wait about a week see if he changes if not then dump him he seems to immature to be in a relationship right now he dosent know what he wants if hes broke up with u and came back about 3 times hes confused and you dont need that right now u sound smart so i hope it works out for u. Good luck!!!
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