I was in love with this one guy even though we only dated for a short time after a couple of weeks he just ignored me around ne of my friends because they didnt really like him. He was ok if it was just us or our one friend but ne other time he acted like we werent dating. all my friends warned me and said i was to good for him but i didnt listen. We ended up having sex which it was my first time and hes had a few different girls before. I just wish it turned out differnt but after we had sex a few times i got tired of him actin like that i couldnt handle him hurting me more than ne one else has...hes the person i cared about in my life everyone else i hated hes the one i lived for. He took the break up badly first he was confused, sad, then he was yelling, and he said he didnt even like me. he just gave up tryin I dont want a bf who will be fine one minute and then have me in tears the next it seemed like everything i said was wrong and i felt useless. I dated another guy lets call Him guy "B" but i broke up with guy "B" cuz i was still in love with my ex but i realized me and my ex arent meant to be and i want guy "B" back. i talked to him and he said he misses me but he has a rule that he dosent date girls twice but he was messin around and said that he might break that rule....i dunno if he really wants me back hes never said i love you to a girl before cuz he didnt really know what it meant i told him what i thought it meant and he said the only girl he felt like that about was me. i dunno if he wants me back he never really asked me back out he is a good guy but hes not the best bf we didnt get to talk much but hes the cutest, sweetest, guy ive met and hes the only one i feel amazing around the first time i saw him i felt something i dunno what but i felt an immediate connection. i want to know if this guy likes me? and how to go back out with him? i need to know what to say so we will get back together i told him how i felt but i think he feels im gonna break up with him again. So will someone please Help Me!!!
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--- Monday, May 29, 2006 - Advice
Answer by: darkwolf
Well, the first guy sounds like he was a real jerk. You made a mistake by dumping guy B, and you admit it, which is good.
If guy B doesn't want you back, there is nothing you can do about it, you should forget him and move on, but to know if he wants you back or not, you have to sit him down and have a talk with him, and tell him you need an answer, does he want you back or not? That is all you really need to say. Tell him you made a mistake, you regret it, but you can't change the past, and you want to make things right again. You like him and would like to see him again. If he says yes, good for you! But if he says no, don't freak out, just back down and let him go, and get over him. You sound quite young, and I don't think you should take relationships too seriously at your age. If he says no, move on, see other guys, make more friends with both girls and guys, have a good time. Forget about the first guy, he was a real jerk and he hurt you. You made a mistake, learn from it. And perhaps you should wait with having sex until you have dated long enough to know the guy, or perhaps even wait until marriage when you know the guy isn't just going to dump you the next day. There is lots of time for sex when you are older, when you are young you should try to get a stable relationship going first. Goodluck!
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