Respected sir/madam, Im writing this to u from India, age 16 bharath
I met a girl in my granny’s house, she lives in 1 floor for the first time ive seen a girl beautiful in my life. She was so cute. But at that time I don’t what’s love After growing 16 I understood all these days I’m in love with her. I think she too loves me
I’ve visited her in my granny’s house for 10times
For the 1st time she just started talking to me, we are not that much close
For 2nd visit she had spent her time with me for hours, at that time I don’t know it was love But there was something I understood.
For 3rd visit it was my brothers bay and I was busy inviting every one (I m in 9th class according to Indian standards) she at that time came near me and said these “don’t u want to talk to me, im waiting for u she holed my hands tightly and said” at that time I came to conclusion that something is there between us
But after a long time I’ve visited her she used look at my eyes deeply, she was not talking as she was doing before, and 1 time I asked her opinion on love she said she hates love.
But I dint say anything When I am not there she my relatives when I’m coming, but when I come she feels shy to talk to me , but every visit we both feel shy to approach each other, and sometimes I become depressed that im not able to express my love to her. Now u give me a suggestion on this sir
Sir now u have to say me what to do.
Plz don’t neglect sir
Thanks
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--- Monday, May 29, 2006 - Do not be afraid
Answer by: Annon
At your age, the distinction between love and attraction is a difficult thing to differentiate between, but if you are interested in this girl seriously, do not delay in letting it be known.
There is a quote from John Shelly on Lonely Love that says it best... "Emotions felt; long contained; often sought, but seldom sained."
In other words, if you bottle up your emotions and don't let her know soon after feeling those feelings, the distance you create is devestating. Do not be afraid to take action.
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