Okay, I've noticed something. Women always say that they want a guy that is stable and has a job.
Well, then why do they always date unemployed losers?
I have a job and I consider my self a good looking guy. But no women wants anything to do with me. I'm not dirrty, or anything.
And I would treat her better than anyone else. But do they want anything to do with me? NO! they all want guys that treat women like crap.
My friend once told me that you have to treat a whore like a queen and a queen like a whore. I'm starting to think that's true.
Not to mention that every women I've dated has cheated on me.
What am I doing wrong here? I'm sick of being lonely.
Guys that look worse than me have these hot girls and then you have these losers with no jobs with hot girls. But me, I have no one.
What's wrong with this picture?
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--- Monday, May 29, 2006 - As a 20 year old woman...
Answer by: darkwolf
As a 20 year old woman, I have no idea why girls do this. It is sort of the same way with the guy mentallity of dating blondes but marrying brunnettes I think. Girls like to date bad boys, because there is some sort of forbidden, bad, sexual attraction to that sort of thing, but they want to marry the good guys with steady jobs.
As for dating unemployed losers who aren't even badass... sometimes girls are just stupid. Our society encourages women to be stupid sex objects, sadly.
Also, I'm sure you have probably already heard this and it is very cliche, but perhaps you are looking for the wrong type of women... The fact that you say the losers get the "hot girls" suggests to me that you are only looking at one type of girl. Just the words "hot girls" suggests to me blonde girls who wear skimpy clothing and give lap dances feely at clubs. Maybe I'm wrong, but these types of girls tend to just want to have sex, and lots of it, and usually its the losers with no jobs who are willing to be in a relationship just to get some from "hot chicks" and have no deeper relationship than sex.
Maybe I'm preaching to the choir here, but I just thought I'd through that out. Maybe you should look at some different types of girls, look in different places.
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