Title: Torn between 2 guys

By: Gwen

I am so confused! I dated this guy (Will) for about 8 months and it was great. I've never met anyone who cares so much about me. He is my first love, I've never spent any better time with any of my exs. But near the end of our relationship, it started to be boring, he didn't work anymore, basically did nothing and I got fed up! So decided to part.

During the same period of time, I met this good looking guy (Pat) at my old job. He is a nice person, talks alot alot alot, and is very attractive. He is 6 years older than me (Will is 3 years older) and lives alone and takes very good care of himself and his apartment. I like this because he is mature, responsible. He makes me feel beautiful and really wishes that I would date him. But I'm scared of dating him for loosing Will or vice versa.

Will desperatly wants me back, he works now and says he changed. He cares so much about me, he's there whenever I need him. As for Pat, he has many things I don't like about him (same for Will) but Pat, he is a new person in my life, somethig new! But I'm scared of doing the wrong choice. I constantly think about this everyday and I'm fed up. It hurts me alot.

What should I do?

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Sunday, June 4, 2006 - Hm
Answer by: bridgettelynn