ok i have had sex wit three guys, i know that sounds really slutty but im not like that the guy i had sex wit i loved and i would do ne thing for him well he talked me into having sex wit his friends they were all drunk and i didnt really want too i kept sayin no but he kept doin stuff and talkin me into it then his friends came in and it just happened i took some pill but it was a relaxer or somethin... well it all seemed like a dream everything happend so fast and it didnt hit me till days later what i had done me and the guy broke up cuz he was to pushy and i guess i was wrong about him....
im datin this great guy hes never done ne thing wit a girl not even made out i feel like i want to do somethin wit him he knows about my past and i really love him and he really loves me he treats me so right and i can tell him ne thing we already have our future planned out and hes a really devoted guy i know ur sayin yah right ur to young but u have no idea we have promises and so many memories its somethin so amazin i cant explain but im afraid to do ne thing because it will make me seem slutty... he says its fine and we will wait as long as i want even if that means till marriage but i dont want to wait because of my past
i dont want to have sex for the pleasure i want to wit him because when im around him i never feel close enough and sex is a intimate passionate thing u share when ur in love and i want to share this wit him...i made a mistake before by letting a guy talk me into stuff especially when he was drunk he didnt know what he was sayin or doin.... im not sayin i want to jump right in and have sex but mb more physical stuff and work our way up to sex in another 6 months...im just worried about what ppl would think and wht this would make me if i do this??? can someone help me am i a slut or just a stupid teenager who made mistakes?
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--- Wednesday, June 21, 2006 - This is not good
Answer by: Hidakaiko
Sorry for my English, but I think that it gets the point.
I am disturbed by your behaviour in the paragrapht, I think your guy who you say you loved.. he pressed you into being raped, since you said you had protested to this. I agree it was your right choice to break up with this person. Maybe you are not a slut, if you did truly not consented to this then you are not a slut, maybe you had made small mistakes for taking the pill to relax you.. you were making a larger mistake for letting them take advantage of you, this could be rape.
As about what you are thinking of doing with this other guy, he seems to be nicer and you should wait until the right moment but do not let your past majorly have affected this new relationship.
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