hey, im 18 years old and my ex is 19. we had a serious relationship for 1 year and 4 months. during our relationship he would often fight about him ditching me for his friends and generally treating me like i diddnt matter. it was obvious for a long time throughout our reationship that i loved him more than he loved me. we broke up a number of times in our relationship but always took each other back. 6 months ago my ex broke up with me because he just diddnt love me anymore and wanted to be single again. it has been the hardest 6 months of my life and i am nowhere near over him. we tried the friend thing but always ended up hooking up, resulting in me having a very hard time letting my feelings for him go. i sometimes call him but we always argue because i still love him and he wants me to move on and it hurts me when he yells at me. i know he was using me when we tried to be friends and him sleeping with me meant nothing because he told me. my friends all think im crazy for wanting him back because he treated me pretty awful at times. i know i cant be with him again and its very hard for me to see or talk to him but we live in a small town so its hard for me to avoid that. i really need to get over this guy im going insane here. any suggestions on getting over an ex boyfriend would seriously help me i know it takes time, but its been 6 months and it still feels like he broke up with me yesterday. any advice, or inspiring stories, would really help me out alot
thank you
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--- Monday, July 10, 2006 - another asshole
Answer by: A*Lonely*Girl
ok it happens to everyone u need to move on its obvious hes an ass and mb he did love u but now hes juss usin u and u can do so much better its gonna take some time take an hour or two to cry and let it all out about him remeber the bad times and be thankful for the good consider it a blessing he broke up wit u cuz now u can go out and find a great guy who will treat u right and he will still be a dick lol. the best way is not to talk to him or see him and only think of how bad u treated him then u will start to hate what he did and move on after a while once ur over him mb u can be friends again but juss friends their mb arguments and rough times but u will get through it go out and have fun flirt and meet new guys it will help...Good Luck hope that helped.
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