I met this guy out clubbing we danced sang just had a massive laugh, we decided to meet up 2 days later. We went for a gorgeous picnic just sat on his blanket and talked for hours we had so much in common ended up back @ his place no sex or anything jus watched TV and having a laugh ened up falling asleep in his arms and so I stayed the night stayed with him the next day as well. We decided to meet up after I had come back from Wales (I was going on holiday) went to his again ended up in his arms tlking for hours again it was amazing! He asked if I wanted to stay round again and I said yes we ordered takeaway and ate it in his bed it felt so right. He told me how much he liked me looked in my eyes told me I had gorgeous eyes and we had the most amazing kiss then my phone rang I forgot about my parents. They asked me where I was and I stupidly lied because they get a bit funny when I mention guys even though im 19! I said I was staying at a girlfriends but they found out I was lying they found out the truth and came round to take me home and the guy says I don't want you to stay round again if it means lying to your parents but I do like you... I ended up leaving in tears I felt so stupid not only were my parents disappointed in me he was too! The guy put credit on my phone this morning and asked me to fone him to see if I was alright and he said if I ever need someone to tlk to then he will always be there for me I just have to call him but I think he doesn't want the hassle how can I prove to him that it was just a one off? He is the most amazing guy I have met in ages I don't know what to do coz if I told him all this he'll run a mile I've only had 2 dates with him its crazy! Please help I need some advice!
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--- Thursday, July 27, 2006 - thank you for your response
Answer by: GreenFairy
thank u for ur response... I did talk to him and conviced him that i'll never lie about seeing him again me met up again and I told my parents who I was with he seemed happy about that. I'm not allowed to stay round there anymore becuase of my parents but I figure that my parents are letting me see him so thats something. The thing is my parents seem to think that because I'm not a virgin that means as soon as I stay round a guys house then I've had sex with him! Its soo unfair only had sex with one person and that was with my ex we went out for a yr and a half! I'm on the pill, im only on it because my periods are soo bad but surly if they think im having sex (which im not) they'll know that I won't get pregant!
--- Friday, July 21, 2006 - he sounds like a nice guy
Answer by: misunderstoodgirl
ok call him up and ask him what was the big deal about u lying tell him ur sorry and u wont do it again.he seems like a guy who hates honesty but i think it might of been the parents showing up that freaked him out more u didnt lie to him so its not as big of a deal.you also need to talk to ur parents your 19 your an adult and they shouldnt have showed up at his place thats not right ur old enough to make ur own decisions i could see if they called u or talked to u about it but picking u up is wrong so have a talk wit them. now if u really like this guy tell him leave a note call whatever juss explain how sorry u were for lying u just wanted to be in his arms without ur parents getting mad cuz obviously they dont give u ne space. now do what u can to make him understand and realize that u wont do it again u made a mistake and u will get ur parents to ease up if he still is mad or dosent really listen then evidently hes not that great of a guy if he dosent listen..... hoped that helped good luck.
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