my problem i have 2 guys one is my ex and the other my current bf... last nite i told my bf i wanted to take a break and explore my options i really care for my bf but something is missing i feel like im not loving him in the way i should....my bf loves me so much and he was very upset when i told him i need to think. he wants us to get married in the future and have kids hes the only guy who has said this that i believe. but hes not my type at all and i feel awkward when im wit him we dont have much in common and when i talk to him i get bored we juss have nuttin to talk about but we dont talk or see each other much cuz we only have cell phones and he lives 30 minutes away and during school he will have football practice and a job so i will see him even less.
my ex is my type when we dated we talked for 8 hours straight we go to the same school and always see each other, he has a job also... i was in love wit him and i think i still am....he never gave up he tried for a month to get me and weeks tryin to get me back but when we dated he became a jerk he was shy at school which means i was ignored and i thought i was pregnant he flipped sayin he would go around sayin it wasnt mine and he said that he wouldnt have a kid no matter what it takes we would fight about the stupidest things(my fault) everywhere i go it leads to him when i broke up wit him i wanted him back and he kept askin me to come back but i was scared i would get my heart broken so nuttin happened.he apologizes for it all he said he was worried but i dont know if hes ready to take on responsibilities he also has a job but its next to his house so i can still see him....but i dunno if he wants me back his friends says he does and im pretty sure he would take me back
please help it would be great if more than 1 person could answer this i have bad judgement this decision could change my future. should i go for my ex he was a jerk he is really sorry and he seems to have changed, my bf is so loyal and trusting just somethin seems not there which one is better for me!
Responses to this article:
--- Saturday, August 5, 2006 - What to do?????
Answer by: AskBecky
Dear Lonely,
I can tell this is a Very, hard choice for you. I see that your current boyfriend loves you alot, love like that is hard to find. If he's boring, than have something to do, like have 'field trips' as like going to a diferent place every 2 weeks, then you can have fun together, show him what you like. Let him explore what you want.
About your ex boyfriend, the question is do you love him? He sounds much like a jerk, I don't think that he s right for you, you might love him alot but, he might just bring you down, You might have fun with him, I would like that too, but you have to see what he does for you. Good luck.
Sincerely, Ask Becky
--- Sunday, July 30, 2006 - Spice it up with current boyfriend
Answer by: ek
Try doing something with your current boyfriend thats all, something different, mayhe thats all thats needed, but give the guy a chance i think as he counds like a great guy, which doesn't come round very often.
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