sooo, i've been in this relationship. and as all relationships do, it ended. i wont go into details, him and i were together for a year and he's truley an angel to me. i don't have much of a social life, typical umm what can you call it "Daria" ness. Although its not so very typical, since every girl in my school doesn't seem to mind making friends with people. I'm just not like most girls and its difficult because, when you break up with someone. You need a friend to fall back on, I don't have one of those. The guy i was with, has been a big part of my everyday life. Or was at least, and I did break up with him. Because everything around me wouldn't have made our relationship last, so i had to break up with him. 5 month in, i of course almsot regret it. Is it because i'm "lonely". I'mnot sure but this sucks ass, and I talk to him every week or so. But I can't because he doesnt talk to me with any form of interest. Its more like an 'i owe this girl a couple of phone chats it wont kill me'. and i have a good feeling that cutting our connection would do me good. and it has when i attempted it, for three weeks. He prety much led me on and i had to ask him if he really meant what he had said. What he said was an un-intended hint for "getting back together" but he didn't mean to lead me on so he says. So i stopped talkingto him because i was angry, and would it be okay to ask him what it is i did wrong in the relationship?? something thats fixable or was it just my persona that he's not interested in.
Do you think that's okay? I want to get over him, and i'm anticipating into getting into a new relationship after i get therapy for you know..things. :]]]
hopefully, i can't wait.
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--- Monday, August 7, 2006 - tuhtj
Answer by: eskEMO
i haven't asked him what i did wrong, i guess ijust really want to know who doesn't. but, him and i are the kind to help each other out..if that makes sence. i didnt think anyone would respond to this, thank you. but i know what idid wrong, you never know. i could be wrong, i could be right..but life goes on. i getcha, thank you :))
--- Wednesday, July 26, 2006 - time to move on
Answer by: A*Lonely*Girl
ok it would probably be easier if u dont ask him wht u did wrong because it will make u seem clingy and im sure its nothin u did he probably juss thought u werent the one its nothin bad u will beable to move on after some time juss remember it wasnt meant to be things have a way of working out and i bet since he broke up wit u it will somehow lead u to another better guy.....guys r always leading u on thats juss how they r its like they have power basically they want the girl they love but they still dont want u too be happy its like they get pleasure out of u not being wit someone.....its time to move on and find someone who deserves u i know its hard but just try. Good luck
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