Title: Painfully waiting

By: lov3torn

Dear Love Is Great.com,

I fell in love for the first time with a guy, that is just as confusing as me. We have never dated, though I have been wanting to for a long time. We do have sex. We get along well and have alot in common. I cannot tell what he wants from me. He has even said he doesn't know and that is why he so abrupt at times. Sometimes, I believe he knows that he can play around with my heart and does it for pleasure. He tells me he doesn't want to "put his all" out for a girl unless he knows it will last. We both have been hurt and have trust issues. I more or less want to believe him. I am alittle scared of him as well. I become timid and quite, like I always do with people I am attracted to. This is deeper though and very painful for me. I love him. I've walked away from our friendship several times because of this burning wonder. I kept coming back hoping something would change with him. But i'm never sure of where to draw the line anymore. I cannot walk away from him again now. Do you think if he loved me, he would know what he wants? Should I try to prove to him I want things to last between us or my love for him? How can I do that? I am sorry I am asking alot. I just need as much advice as I can get.

Thank you,
Victoria

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Wednesday, September 6, 2006 - Let me be REAL with you.
Answer by: jj07