I have known this guy named tyler my whole Life. We we're best friends for a couple of months. I helped him through his last relationship cuz he had got heartbroken. Then, after he got over her i guess he started to have feelings for me. I knew it was a bad idea to take it any farther cuz it would ruin our friendship. Well i went ahead and we started dating. Then, it seemed like he changed. He just Lost intrest in me it seems like. Well we broke up. I WAS SO SICK OVER IT. Everytime i seen him I would throw up & Cry. Then, the other Day he told me he missed me and crap. Then tonight he talked to me on instant message and asked me what i was doing & stuff. and he told me he was there hanging out with his friend and this girl named tiffany which is the girl he tryed to get with BEFORE ME. so im very hurt. i feel like he wanted to rub that in my face. i want to be with him again. He's all that's ever on my mind & i dont understand how to get things back the way they were. PLEASE HELP. im so heartbroken. I feel like i lost my best friend and lover all in One.
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--- Tuesday, September 19, 2006 - Talk with him!
Answer by: HereToHelp
Talk with him. Tell him how hurt you're feeling and that you'd like to rebuild a relationship with him; a friendship at least. Ask him to be honest with you... why did things change between the two of you? Was/is there someone else? Once you have your answers you should be able to move on from this - be it, getting back with him romantically or becoming friends again.
Don't let words unspoken destroy what's left of you hun :)
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