Im new to this site and I really need help.I have been with this amazing guy since the past two years and he's a great guy but off late things have been really wierd. He had planned to go to another state for college before we started our relationship and after we got all serious, he said he could'nt because he really loves me and can't possibly stay without me. I told him to rethink his decision and not commit without being sure because I mean this is a huge decision and specially if you've decided it since like forever. Anyhow, he said he would stay and so obviously I trusted him. He did apply to the other university but said that that was only a formality because his father wanted him to go there.My family really likes him and my parents even helped with his applications within the state. His parents,though, did not want him to stay but he said he would no matter what...and then the worst happened!! He left and told me only a few days before he went..He was upset too and said his father really forced him because he had already paid. I was devastated...I mean this was totally unexpected..one day I was making plans to meet him and the other day he was gone!!. Even my family was very disappointed.Anyhow I got over it...but then he reached there and said he wants to come and he will and I told him not to say such things when he is not sure because he makes me expect it!! But he still did...and now that doesnt seem to be coming true either.I know he loves me. Also his anger has always been a problem...he doesnt swear but becomes really rude at times. And right now I just broke up with him and all he said was Im not letting you break up because Im not letting you go that easy...Am i just overeacting? P.S; im sorry i know its long!!!
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--- Saturday, September 30, 2006 - hes a guy
Answer by: lostgurl
his temper dosent seem to be much of a problem all guys have one as long as hes not abusive he shouldve told u earlier tht he was leaving tht shows a problem he loves u and wants to be with u but he is busy and its long distance so u will have to get used to it and if not then u know wht u need to do...talk to him tell him all this and see wht u can work out and see where tht goes...if u really love him then u can make it work...if its meant to be then it will be i hope tht helped...good luck
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