I was with a guy 3 years, not the greatest relationship, we were happy one day, then not the next. One day I got sick of the way he treated me, I broke up with him. That was 4 months ago. At first we were friends, then still faught so I decided cold turkey. Then a week ago, he calls me crying and from that moment on he calls me 3 times a day for the next 7 days. He talked about issues in his life, asked about mine, that was it. Then the other day I told him I had enough listening to his stories about how he's ruining his life and waisting it away and told him that I'd rather hear positive things. Anyways, since that convo he hasn't bothered picking up the phone and calling me, nothing. Throughout all of this, I have a family member who is extremly ill and in the hospital, and all week long he was always making sure that I knew he was there and letting me know he would do whatever possible for me. Now all of a sudden it's been 2 days and I don't hear from him. What's his deal?
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--- Wednesday, October 4, 2006 - Cold Turkey is best
Answer by: Gregg@LoveIsGreat.com
You were better off cold turkey with this guy. Just let him wander out of your life again. From your descriptiong of him and your past relationship he was not adding much positive to your life. So continue on with your life and let him go on his way.
--- Tuesday, September 26, 2006 - You Are a Moron
Answer by: Terrence
Are you kidding me. The guy calls you crying, and you tell him you only want to hear positive things. He called you, basically a cry for help, telling you that he's very upset and needs someone, and you pretty much told him you don't want to waste your time with his problems.
So now you have a problem, and he doesn't want to talk to you, and you're asking what his deal. Maybe his deal is that he doesn't want to waste his time talking to someone who thinks they are above his problems. You didn't want to help him deal with his, so why should he waste him time dealing with yours.
Damn, you were right to stop talking to him, but you're a moron to wonder why he doesn't want to talk to you.
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