I was with a guy for 3 years, honestly not a good relationship at all. Brutal fights, he was extremly emotionally abusive, controlling, possesive. All of these signs would make any girl get up and walk. Which I did 4 1/2 months ago, but for some reason he's constantly crossing my mind, and I keep thinking that I want him back. Why would I after how BAD everything was pretty much 90% of the time?!?!?!?!?
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--- Thursday, October 12, 2006 - Answer ... you spent 3 years together
Answer by: gregg@loveisgreat.com
Even if things were 90% bad, you were used to having him around. That provided a level of comfort. So now that he is gone your mind is wanting that small level of comfort of having someone you are used to around.
Don't give in to it. Give yourself time to get over him and move on. You did the right thing.
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