i just started dating this guy but he lives in another state i met him through one of my friends who moved there hes 2 years older then me and absolutely amazing, i trust him and i normally dont trust ppl easily, i talk to his friends as well they always tell me how much he wants to be wit me and how he talks about me all the time...we talk every morning on the phone and nite for a few hours, my friends keep tellin me i dont know him and im stupid but they asked us tons of questions about family,favorite things, past problems/experiences and i knew every one and he knew every one about me. this summer if everythings still goin good he really wants to be near me. were plannin on workin and savin up as much as we can by summer then havin him get a job and a place here, its a long shot yes but either way hes movin and if were doin good the job opportunities r better where i live... idk cuz my friends keep sayin no and his friends love us together and he has no doubt, ive always fallin for the wrong guy ive been mentally abused, physically abused, and raped, its really hard for me to love a guy because of wht guys have done to me when they keep hurting u in every way possible its hard... i just need to let people in more but is he the right one to be letting in my life and to be with??
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--- Sunday, October 29, 2006 - Hard to know
Answer by: gregg@loveisgreat.com
It is hard to answer your question, not really knowing the guy. But, maybe you should move slower and let your friends get to know him better. Then, maybe they can give better advice after spending more time around him.
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