My hubby works in a gastation and one of his female Co-worker likes to talk about her sexual life with him and she likes to flirt and be touchy sometime. she also plays around with my hubbys phone, but she is married with kids and have a husband with his kids also. i dont know what the problem is with her life but all i know is that i feel very insecure when i hear something from my husband about her. the lady he works with she is lot older like 35 years old. almost close to my moms age. i feel that my husband has respect for her but she doesnt treat my husband with good respect. she has to stop fooling around because he is younger then her, and her husband and my husband know eachother. but i dont know what to do with the insecurities. i know im not an american and my husband is also not an american i respect this country and i know the people of this culture and how the society is but i cannot trust any girls over here. i do not kno what to think and who to blame my hubby tells me that he knows her for about 3 years and shes not like that. in my culture no one looks or talks in away that will be shameful to the wife but as for me i dont know whats happing.. is it my insecurities or just the culture differences? i need an answer soon or else i wont be able to sleep at night.
It sounds like culture differences. Maybe the girl trusts your husband, or she might be trying to seduce him. But, since your husband is telling you about it I do not think she has a chance.
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