About 3 weeks ago I met some one very special, it has been instantaneous. They say when you know you know, everything has been great. We have the same values, sense of humour and we are equally besotted with each other. Of course there is a catch. He recently spit up with his wife of 3 years 4 months ago. She moved back to Germany and took there young daughter with her. She has since started seeing someone else and seems to of moved on except she texts him saying she misses him more than breathing etc etc. Of course this has a toll on us, but I have been very understanding. He has told me that although he likes me very much he is not ready for another relationship. He does not want to be beholden to anyone.
I care for him very much and would like to do what ever it takes to make it work. I just don't know the best way to handle this. I don't want to become increasingly frustrated with his unavailable situation but at the same time I have not met anyone who makes me feel this good and happy.
What to do?
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--- Saturday, December 9, 2006 - He needs time
Answer by: gregg@loveisgreat.com
Sounds like bad timing. Good that you met and feel good about each other, but bad because he needs to end his marriage and grieve over the end of it. You have to realize it would not be good for you to get into a relationship until he has had closure.
So you can either be at the level he wants with you or move on. There is no way to force it to work at this point.
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