I have met the love of my life. I know he loves me he has praticially asked me to marry him..we have looked at rings..the whole nine...just one thing: I LIED.
Throughout our relationship my ex has continued to contact me in which i knew my boyfriend would not like so i kept it from him. My boyfriend went thru my phone one day just lookin at pictures and went through stuff and saw that i had texted someone saying that i would meet him somewhere to talk..talk is all that happend- plus he has tried to kiss me and hug me which i didnt let happen..anyway he knew i meet someone but i didnt tell him it was my ex i lied and said my firend jen. he kept tellin gme i have a bad feeling about that day are you sure nothing happened. and i told him no... Then a couple nights ago my boyfriend confronted me with it and i spilled the beans and well 3/4 told him the whole story..in other words he left..i broke his heart like i promised i wouldnt.. The following day i had to go to work he stayed at my apartment and waited for me to talk...i then told a couple more things i had "left out" the night before not on purpose but in the mixed of feeling so horriblw i just forgot or didnt think of.
Well now he says we are over and i have lost the best thing i have have ever had. yall he did so much for me..made me feel like i was a angel helped me with stuff around the house..i mean put is whole heart in our relationship..i did too i just had something hidden and lied about it. I feel terrible..i have to prove to him that i love him and have the willpower to make this work again like before..i know things wont be the same..but i need him. he the half that makes me whole. i love him..what do i do?
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--- Tuesday, December 26, 2006 - I guess, move on
Answer by: gregg@loveisgreat.com
It probably is best for you to move on and learn the lesson. Don't lie.
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