Ok, I was with a guy for 3 years, it was a bull crap relationship, even though I knew it was horrible i still stayed in it. Anyways, I finally broke free, and even though a lot of it was bad I still love him and I am not fully over him. We go to the same college, and it's very small so we have to see eachother throughout the day. I really can't do it, how do I get over him if i have to see him all the time???
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--- Thursday, January 11, 2007 - Difficult problem
Answer by: gregg@loveisgreat.com
Seeing the guy you broke up does make life harder. I can think of a few things that may help.
1) Write down some of the bull crap things in the relationship and keep it with you to look at every time you see him or wonder why you broke up. The reminder helps.
2) If you have the time (being in college it might not be the case), see other guys.
3) Really get into your studies. If you are really into it, then thinking of other things (including the guy) just doesn't happen.
#1 is probably the best idea. Remember why you aren't with him!
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