what should i do, me and my b freind argue alot but we been together for 3 yrs and have a child he gets mad over lil things but we love each other to do, just his anger makes the relationship bad.
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--- Wednesday, January 24, 2007 - Hmmm...
Answer by: starfox_04
I don't know much about relationships with kids, but think about the kid for a minute... is it a good environment to raise a child in? You aren't married to this guy, and you fight a lot. Does he hit you? Then you need to get a restraining order and blah blah blah. I'm not going into that, if a woman, a mother, doesn't know what to do to get out of a physically abusive relationship, perhaps she shouldn't be a mother.
If it is just verbal abuse, that still isn't a good place to raise a child. I HATED it when my mom and dad fought. It made me nervous inside, it causes a lot of stress and tension that a child should not have to experience. There isn't much information here about how you fight and what you fight about, but you say he gets mad over little things, sounds like a lot. Leave his A%%. I don't care if he is the father of your baby and you have been together for 3 years, if what you say is really true, he sounds like a loser. Sure, he is probably helping support you financially. You don't say how old you are, but maybe you could find better support, in a better environment, with a parent or relative, maybe even a friend who is willing to put up with a kid. Just make sure the environment is alcholic and drug addict free.
There isn't much you can do to get your guy to stop being angry. Is alcohol involved? Maybe he should get some help if there is... but if you mention this he probably won't listen, check out some AA site or something. I don't think this is a good relationship for you to stay in, for your sake and the kid.
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