ok i cheated on my bf we havent been dating long but we both really like each other. now i kno ur thinkin if u care for him why did u do it and honestly idk cuz hes the only one on my mind. now everyone was making me really mad that day sayin im to good for him and i need to dump him which i will NOT do.
my friend offered to take me for a ride and get me out of the house. so we went for a ride and he took me to the country and he tried making a move on me i pushed him away and reminded him bout my bf but he kept doing it, he kept trying to convince me to do it, i was raped when i was 13 and lost my virginity to tht man so when he came on to me like tht it kind of scared me, after an hour of him persisting on doing this i caved and we had sex(i kno real slutty right) i didnt want to have sex with him especially since hes 4 years older then me but i did it ne ways.
im a gurl who has been cheated on many times and hates to lie ive never cheated b4 but i fucked up. i want to tell my bf but i kno he will leave me cuz hes been hurt b4. which i dont blame him. but i will NOT do this again. so my problem is do i tell my bf the truth and have him leave me or do i just keep it to myself and be faithful from now on.
Responses to this article:
--- Monday, April 30, 2007 - get new friends
Answer by: lee02twins
that friend of yours doesnt respect you or you bf. and if you tell hes gonna dump you, really he is. so if you can take the guilt keep your mouth shut
--- Thursday, April 19, 2007 - ....
Answer by: sostupid
well i dont think i was raped on this one mb talked into it but in the end i consented to me rape is only if u keep saying no and they force themselves on you which he was pushy but im the idiot who just let him do it so i cant blame my problems on him. i still havent told my bf it frightens me cuz we have been doing really good.
--- Sunday, April 15, 2007 - Tough one
Answer by: gregg@loveisgreat.com
It sounds like you were pressured into having sex, and the guy who did it shouldn't be called your friend. Stay away from him. Also, if you said no ... it isn't consentual sex. So rape two for you. If you say no, that's it.
Telling your boyfriend everything may make him dump you, but then could you take the guilt of being with him and him not knowing?
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