i was pushed into having sex with a older man and i am also dating this other guy who is wonderful. he dosent know about me having sex with this older guy because i know he will be furious and i am deeply sorry for doing it i was scared and just stupid. now i dont want to loose this great guy and i havent had any contact with the guy i had sex with and i dont plan to.
ive been taken advantage of before and this time its takin affect on my relationship i hate my boyfriend touching me at all and i feel i dont want to have sex with him or do anything physical but kiss which before i had sex with this other man i had no problem being physical. my boyfriend says he has no problem waiting on me to have sex but i can tell he also feels he did something wrong which he didnt im just scared to have sex again even though i do care for him. i dont know if its because of this other man i had sex with or if im just loosing feelings for my boyfriend. lately everything has been making me irritated and i dont feel like being around him that much so can someone help me how to feel more comfortable being around my boyfriend or what i need to do to get the old me back??
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--- Friday, April 20, 2007 - Time for counseling
Answer by: gregg@loveisgreat.com
Have to be honest here, you need to talk to a professional counselor. They have training on how to help people in your situation. I am talking about a psychologist. That would really be the best to help you through this.
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