My S.O. and I have become distant. He still shows signs that he loves me, but we rarely are intimate and there's no affection at all. Whenever I mention us never spending quality time together, he does the bare minimum to keep me quiet for a while.
Although, I don't think he's cheating at the moment, but I know there is something definitely not right. It's as if he's avoiding me and our line of communication is null & void.
I just don't know what to do because I truly love him. I've asked him if he wants to move on and salvage a friendship. His only response is that there's no other woman, etc.
Please give me any insight possible. I don't want to wait around until he finds someone else if that's the case. Yet, I don't want to assume our relationship is over and something unforgiveable happens.
I feel as though I'm rotting away from the inside out.
Main Question: How long should a person wait on someone without having any contact (i.e. phone call, visit or conversation) before they know it's offically over.
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--- Friday, June 1, 2007 - If he can't tell you, move on
Answer by: gregg@loveisgreat.com
How long do you want to torture yourself?
If you can't confront him and get him to open up about what is wrong then I suggest you set a deadline and keep to it. What determines the deadline? How long do you want to torture youself with wondering?
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