I'm 25. I have been dating my boyfriend for a few months now, and i wouldnt say that im attracted to him 100%. I care about him very much, and love him, but there have been other guys i was soooo attracted too, but i know they werent right for me. My question is, After we are intamate, which i am almost never interested in doing in the first place, i wind up crying. Its so embarrassing and i have to hold it in sometimes, its not everytime its only occasionally. I have never been raped or anything, but i cant understand why i get upset. . .
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--- Friday, June 1, 2007 - Wrong guy
Answer by: gregg@loveisgreat.com
It sounds like you aren't really attracted to your boyfriend. You are probably crying because you really do not want to be with him. Suggest you end the relationship and wait till you find someone you DO want to be intimate.
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