ok i recently came out bout bein Bisexual...i started dating this girl it only lasted a few days and she stayed at my house and i could of never felt better but we would argue alot when she wasnt with me and i felt like i wanted it more then her. then she breaks it off with me cuz she wants to move bak to where she used to live...it killed me and then later she said she would stay for me. and idk shes beggin me to come bak and i think its just cuz shes lonely idk. shes younger and i feel like she dosent kno what she wants. 1min. were fighting and it feels like were gonna break up the next shes sayin she want me 4va. she said shes been like tht cuz of stress, she also smokes pot and ive been tryin to quit.
the whole time we were dating their was this other guy who said he really liked me and wanted to go out with me he said if i was with him i wouldnt have to deal with any of that, he lives like an hour away and he has a car and his own place so he said he would be up here anytime any day and hes the sweetest guy ive ever met he calls me all the time and leaves me messages on the computer. hes older, more mature and knos what he wants and i love that, that is what i need cuz i kno what i want out of life..im jus not sure who to get it from...
in the end i want what every1 wants i want a family. i always saw myself with a husband and kids. and then i met this girl and i was like ok my family will hate me but i feel so comfortable around her and i can trust her but i was wrong cuz she hurt me jus like every1 else. idk if i should give her another chance or give this guy a chance...i feel like i care to much for the girl and shes just sayin bullshit now and the guy i believe him, i really do ive also talked to his family and he isnt into drugs or ne thing like tht and he says he can see himself havin kids with me in the future and he wants to own his own company. so what do i do, im jus so confused i need help quick...
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Answer by: gregg@loveisgreat.com
The girl had her chance with you and blew it. Time to move on. To go back with her will only bring on the same problems again. Next!
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