Title: Torn Between 2 Guys

By: ditzypants88

I am basically torn between two really great guys. This is how it happened:

I dated guy #1 for almost a year and we got to the point where we fought a lot so we would break up over stupid stuff but we always got back together. I took a break onetime and met guy #2.

I clicked very well with guy #2 and after two weeks we started dating! I did not give myself enough time to get over guy #1. I ended up cheating on guy #2 with guy #1. We broke up for that. So for months I was torn between both of these guys.

I finally decided to date guy #2 and see how things go. I then found out he had cheated on me with his x as well! So of course we broke up again and then eventually got back together. When we were back together I told him I still have feelings for guy #1 and I dont know what to do.

I am now single and I dont know which guy to choose and who is best for me.

guy number 1 has always been here for me no matter what, through all of this. As a friend or as more. He's very laid back and fun to be with

guy number 2 is sweet and devotes all his time to me. he has been here too but the cheating deal scares me. I find him more attractive

the sex is both good and my family likes both

any advice????

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Friday, September 28, 2007 - Behind Door #3
Answer by: gregg@loveisgreat.com