ok well.. first of all.. im dating this guy and i really really like him! he treats me good and dont even abuse me or anything... but he wants to have sex with me and do other things.. i mean.. im ok bout the other things (not tryin to sound like a whore) but i mean sex.. yeh it would be great to lol but imean.. the consequences.. what if iget pregnant? or get a disease or sumthin!?! i keep tellin im later on in our realtionship andim scared to tell him no.. dont want him to break up wih me.. should i just tel him hes moving to fast or what? please help! quick!! thnx!
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--- Sunday, June 27, 2004 -
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TRUST ME DONT DO IT UNLESS YOUR READY IVE BEEN IN THAT SAME POSITION BEFORE BUT 5 TIMES AND I JUST TOLD THEM NO IM NOT READY RITE NOW AND THEY LISTEN AND HAVENT ASKED YET. BUT DO WHAT U THINK IS BEST FOR U. GOOD LUCK!!!!!
--- Friday, June 11, 2004 - heres what i think
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--- Saturday, May 29, 2004 -
Answer by: Dr. Phil Wannabe (D.P.W.)
Firstly, he IS abusive because he is pressuring you to have sex. He needs to respect your feelings and understand that you're obviously not ready. If he loved you or cared about you he would respect your feelings. You're being the smart one here by understanding the potential consequences of having sex (one out of every four people have genital herpes) and you know that sex is something you're not ready for. Dump him and dump him fast... chances are based upon his behavior that he just wants sex from you anyway, because if he truly cared about you as a person he wouldn't pressure you, period. Save the sex for when you know you are ready and you want to share it with someone whom you truly love and want to have a future with.
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