i have been dating this guy dor 2 weeks. he keeps telling me that he loves me alot and i would say it back to me too. then i asked him on what level of love do you love me. then out of no where he said that he doens't love me and only said it because he doesn't want to be mean...i don't understand? is he just using me for sex???
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--- Sunday, June 27, 2004 -
Answer by:
SOME BOYZ R JUST USERS ESPECIALY FOR SEX.
--- Sunday, June 27, 2004 -
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WELL IF U HAD SEX WITH HIM THATS YOUR FAULT.
--- Wednesday, June 2, 2004 - genius
Answer by: felicia
candy, if you had sex with him, i'm sorry to say that he is using you. most young guys use the "i love you" method to get girls into bed, but you shouldn't let it work! hunny, you should get rid of this jerk.
P.S. Dr. Phil wannabe, you are REALLY good at giving advice. how old are you?
--- Tuesday, June 1, 2004 -
Answer by: Dr. Phil wannabe
Candy, please tell me you didn't have sex with him. PLEASE. If you DID have sex with him after two weeks, that would be a very, very, VERY poor decision on your part. If you had sex with him within two weeks of "dating" and he's saying he loves you and then takes it back because he "didn't want to be mean" -- not only is he a very confused, immature little boy who SHOULD keep it in his pants FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, but yeah, he is using you. But then again, you asked for it. Sorry to tell you that, but what do you honestly expect when you slept with a guy within two weeks of dating him? You obviously don't respect yourself, so why should he respect you? Listen, do yourself a HUGE favor and get into some counseling. I don't know how old you are, but I can well assume you're very young, and having such promiscuous behaviors is going to get you into trouble. One out of ever four people have genital herpes, dear. And the risks don't end there. Be smart, be safe, and for God's sake, have some respect for yourself and WAIT to have sex!
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