I really like this girl at school a lot. Ive talked to her about it, and she says that she likes me the most out of all her guy friends. She said that after the summers over we can go out next year when school starts. I like her so much and everything, but I probably like her too much. The only thing that is really bugging me is that other guys like her and even if I go out with her they will still like her and hit on her a lot. Its just a mental thing and I dont know how to get over it. Please help me.
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if you really like her and she likes you just as much you should be able to relax and maybe even laugh about the other guys always trying to pursue her. Just don't think of her as your posession, she's a girl, not something you own. And make sure that she's not giving these guys the impression that they have a chance and that she's making the limits clear - that she only wants to be friends with them. I would think twice about her if she's leading these guys on and initiates the flirting or lets the flirting escalate. But those are just some precautions, don't sweat if she is indeed a bit of a flirt, as long as that's all she does than you shouldn't get too worried. Best Wishes!
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