One day one of my friends told me that this girl (who I thought was pretty hot) had a crush on me. I didnt like her before that, but then I started to like her. We never really used to talk alot, but after I found out that she liked me we started to talk a lot and I really go to know her. Ive talked to her recently about how I feel and stuff and she said that she would go out with me, but it is summer and she wants to wait untill school starts again. Now most of my friends think of her as a major flirt and stuff. One of my friends says that she likes 4 guys (but she likes me the most). Shes went out with two guys already this past school year, and they never really did anything. Another one of my friends (who went out with her a while ago) says that she is a terrible girl friend and that every time you try to get her to go on a date with you she will change her plans at the last second and say she can't go. Plus, he said that she never wanted to do anything and she hated to be touched. But I feel that what I have with her is special. It seems as though I've known her all my life. I think that it will be different between us than what went on between her and her other boy friends. I just dont want to go into this relationship thinking that its gonna be special when shes just gonna take it as any old one. Please help me.
wala kissimock ya acra shamout buzzrak aminuki, y aaire doiniq allah bint.. I mean listen to THE MAN and not the british fucker. TRUST ME MAN he helped me out I now have 5 girlfreinds!!! and they dont know it lol.
--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 - hmmm
Answer by: Percy, Jewish Brit
this is a dilly of a pickle. I've ran into people like your girlfriend, they are bad news when it comes to long term relationships. If you really feel something special, try to hold hands with her. If she acts all weird and uncomfortable she probably doesnt like you. She should be more comfortable around you over time and do other stuff with you. I think you should stick with her if you love her that much. If she turns out to be a constant pain in the ass you should tell her or something.
--- Tuesday, June 29, 2004 - alright
Answer by: The Man
yo man its like this. she probably didn't like ur friend and didn't want him to touch her. But IF U KNOW FOR A FACT that she likes you and she wants to go out with u then ur in the go. Dont worry about gettin close, just take it slow. And the dating thing, man maybe she was just trying to avoid ur friend. and her other boyfriends, maybe they were just too shy to do anything with her. Shes probably the type that needs a man to command her around TO AN EXTENT dont try and be a fucking loser if u catch my drift. Be confident and be patient. girlz dont like to date in the summer. they want to relax. let me know if u got more questions. peace out
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