Title: To Hang on, Or Let Go

By: Rene

I've been through alot of relationships & they've all been the same old thing. Same sweet talkers, same cocky guy one after another. Up until a couple of months ago. I met this guy & we started talking & ended up dating for a lil over 2 months. Yeah i know it was just 2 months but in that lil bit of time, I found out things I never even knew before. For ex...that some guys out there really do listen 2 u when u talk! lol He made me feel different not only about life, but about myself. We never fought about anything. He would always tell me how crazy he was about me & that we were perfect for each other. Neways here's what happened...
I went away for the weekend on a trip with some friends. Before I left I told him that I loved him for the first time.(he was always telling me that when I felt that strongly about him no matter if it was at a weird time to tell him,so I did). He had been in a bad relationship before & since then has been afraid of commitments because he doesn't want to get hurt. So of course when I told him that I luved him he got scared. When i got back from my trip, he came to pick me up & took me to his house. I noticed that he was acting different than usual. So after asking him a million times what was wrong he told me that while i was gone he went crusing around with another girl & made out with her. To me kissing is very personal so this really upset me. After crying & yelling at each other, he told me that he would never mean to hurt me. A week went by & we tried to work it out & at the end of the week he told me that i desevered better & that he wanted to see me happy, even though i repeatedly told him that he made me happy & i forgave him. His friends & even his mom told me that he has never been so depressed about something b4 in his life so i obviously meant a lil something to him right? Well a few weeks have passed & he is with the girl he cheated on me with, but he started calling me the other day saying that he misses me & that he'll never be happy with any other girl like he was with me. Most people would say that he's just sweet talking me & that he don't mean it but u just have to know how he is. He's an honest person, i mean atleast he did tell me about him cheating on me right? Neways...
I can't stop thinking about him, i've tried going out with other people but in the end i always think about him. Should I let him go or hold on with hopes of him changing the way he is about bein scared? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanx

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Wednesday, June 30, 2004 - Damn
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Wednesday, June 30, 2004 - hello
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