Title:
I FEEL LIKE A SLUT FOR CHEATING ON HIM!plz help
By: evelina
ok..here is my problem. i've been going out with my bf for 4 months and we have a healthy relationship but it's rather friendly that bf-gf. Now he is on holidays for 20 days. I also went for a hols last week 2 a small town were my step dad has a hotel. There,a grl i met introduced me to her gorgeous bro,Mike. I liked him from the very first minute,and he liked me to coz he kept sending me msgs the next day asking me to meet up with him. I wanted to so bad but we both knew that if we met,we would do some crazy stuff,and i never dreamt of cheating on my bf. Im not that type of person. Also he was 20 and im only 16 and he lives quite a long distance from me.. However,that night i stayed over at his place,as his sister invited me. We kept on throwing glances at eachother and when everyone went to bed he sent me a msg telling me 2 go to his room.. And so i did. I saw him standing there in front of me,with his shirt off,his mature figure,his magic blue eyes staring at me..i couldnt resist when he came towards me asking for a kiss. We kissed and hugged all night long but then i remembered my bf. I felt like such a slut and i left his room telling him to keep the night a secret. I hope he does. Now,3 days have gone by and he keeps telling me that he thinks of me all the time and wants me so bad. The trouble is i feel the same way too. In a few days im going back there,and bcoz its a small town,and i hang out with his sister a lot im sure that i will see him somwhere. What if we get carried away again? What if someone finds out? All i know is im diing for another kiss... What do i do? thnx a lot,evelina.
Responses to this article:
--- Friday, October 1, 2004 - Here it is
Answer by: soccersniper98
The truth is that what you did is a slutty thing, there is no other way to put it. You ot like you bf as much as you proclaim, or you owuldn't have done it. I know that temptation is there, but if you loved him, you would not have done it. Don't tell your Bf about the other guy, juSt tell him something else to get out of the relationship. He wouldn't want the truth most of the time, but this is not one of thoses times. How could you do that? If you really thought that you had something with your bf, then why would you ever do anything to put that relationship in jeopardy? Oh, and by the way, I hope you and this new guy never get carried away, bc if you do, then you have both committed an illegal activity. Don't do stuff to hurt you man unless he doesn't love you.
--- Friday, July 16, 2004 - to ysexiMa64
Answer by: evelina
thnx a lot for the advice. i agree on the fact that i should let my bf know (although i wont coz i dnt want to loose him) but u misunderstood smthing.. I did not go looking for a guy bcoz i wasnt satisfied 100% by my bf. It was very different. Like if it were a different person it wouldnt happen.. U say that maybe i should go for this guy but doesnt it matter that he's 4 years older me,lives 3 hours away from me,goes to the army,and i basically know nthing abt him?? thnx
--- Thursday, July 15, 2004 - Woah...
Answer by: YsexiMa64
ok, temptation is a killer, yet in your situation it's gonna kill your boyfreind if he finds out. For the time you've been together, if you haven't hit the spark and maintained it with your boyfreind, then it says alot about how you feel about him. The truth is, your boyfreind doesn't derserve whay you've done, and the best thing to do I think is to let him know that you need time by yourself. Or you could just tell him what has happened. Either way, by the way you mentioned the relationship with your current boyfreind, it seems as if something's missing.Honey, maybe its whats dragging you out of the relationship to look for someone else. Believe me, if your boyfriend was satisfying you in every way posssible, you wouldn't be searching elsewhere. Just let him know, thats the least you could do on his part.You clearly show that your yearning for this new guy, he gets you going, and thats what a relationship is supposed to be like. You never know, maybe this new guy will have the time you seem to be demanding. Good luck
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