I was just wondering if you could help me with my situation. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 11 months now and people are telling me that he is cheating,and what makes the situation worse is that i live in north carolina and he lives in virginia. i see him every weekend though and i will be there all summer. one of my friends that goes to school with him told me today that he heard that Jerell (my boyfriend) has another girl friend at school. but he (my friend sid) says that hes not sure cuz its just a rumor. i also heard that when he tells me he is going to drop one of his friends off that he actually goes to some girls house and has sex with her. i talked to him this morning about it and he says that its not true. he tells me that he loves me but he could still be cheating. my worst fear is that ill break up with him and none of that stuff will be true or that i will stay with him and it will all be true.but at the same time he tells me he loves me and he'll say it in front of his friends too, so i dont know who to believe. there is so much more but can you please tell me what i should do. thank you so much. Theresa
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Answer by: YsexiMa64
Right now the best thing I think for you to do is go with your heart. I know your probably like, ok, whats that, but really do what you feel and believe is right. The fact that you do know that it may well be possible that he is cheating says alot about the trust you have in him.
What you could do, its up to you, but it'll work, is break up with him and tell him that your doing it becasue you just can't take all of the rumors, and you don't have any proof that it's not going on. And give it some time like that, if he doesn't seem to bothered by it, it may well be because he has this other girl on the side. Either way, I believ you should give yourself some time to think this stuff through, honey, if he is the one for you right now, he will come back to you, if not then maybe there's someone else out there for you.
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