I had these 2 guys who both liked me for months. i then finally went out with 1 of them, and the other 1 was upset but still carried on likin me etc. i realised i had made a mistake and knew that i loved the guy i didnt go out with. so i broke up with my boyf. Now im single. and at school the guy i didnt go out with act as though he still really really likes me, always with me etc, jealous of other guys. he holds my hand etc. and we've told eachother we love eachother which is def sumthing i wudnt take lightly and i dont think he wud either. but now hes sayin he just wants 2 take things slow...i.e not hav a relationship. tho i think he wants to hav a sexual realationship with me, always tryin it on when he gets the chance, which he didnt used to be like. so im worried if he only wants me for that now. im so confused, coz i didnt think he was like that, i thought he cared more. and it upsets me, and confuses me coz he is always with me at school, and we act like a couple then. but then he doesnt text me nemore, and he used 2 evryday, and he doesnt want 2 c me out of school which he used 2 want. so i dunno what 2 do!?! im so confused. should i seem disinterested, so that he realises he lkes me? or just wait and see for a bit? or talk 2 him or what? i just dunno what 2 do, it breaks my heart when i think that he might not like me as much as he did nemore, and that i may hav completely ruined sumthing which cudve been great a few months ago. whatever happens im gonna end up heartbroken, i feel stupid for fallin for him, coz i really dont usually! Please help! Thanx xxx
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